My partner and I often seem more like roommates than partners.

We have different ideas about what makes a good sex life.

We avoid talking about, or fight about, money or sex.

I keep secrets from my partner about how I spend (or save) money.

We don’t really make financial plans together.

We don’t really have a 5-year plan, past the wedding.

We often have arguments about the same things.

We have trouble really talking or listening to each other about some things.

I’m not sure if I want (or my partner wants) children.

I don’t know how I feel (or my partner feels) about religion/spirituality.